Today I disappointed a client. A notary client. I was not able to keep my time commitment. And I feel shitty about it.
I called an Uber after Google mapping the client’s location and figuring that 30 minutes should be enough time to go 6.4 miles from where I was. And even when I saw it wasn’t, I sent him a text saying I would be an additional 10-15 minutes late because there was some sort of incident and police were rerouting traffic, causing more traffic. I was taking an Uber Pool Express so, of course, we had other passengers to pick up. However, those said passengers were behind the police yellow tape and we couldn’t to them. After a couple of failed attempts and a crowded 10 East freeway route later, my Uber drive dropped me off 15 minutes in the opposite direction of the client (those were some long ass blocks). Well, never having been to this part of town before, I’m all turned around. I’ve called and texted my would be client and he attempted to help me as he is unsure as to where I am. I’m now on foot trying to find his location. He then texts me that he needs leave by 5pm and asks for an ETA. I have no idea where I am. After trying to figure myself out, I call and send him a text apologizing that I would not be able to make it to see him.
I was late. And lost. And missed an opportunity.
And I feel horrible about that. What made it worse, but that he proceeded to call me and text me for over an hour telling me how upset he was with me. I haven’t listened to his voicemails as of yet, but I feel bad enough.
I failed someone and I don’t like it.
I mean, it took me four hours to write this, that’s how bad I felt. Still feel. Just replaying the latter half of my day in my head wondering what if I left work earlier or just took Uber pool instead of the Express.
Sometimes we don’t win them all and those losses suck.
Okay, so we missed last’s week check-in on our money challenge, but that’s all right. Consider that week an extra seven days to figure out your budget. I mean, after all, I did say you would gonna need to look over some of your automated monthly subscriptions and decide what you didn’t need anymore and could live without. And that may mean giving up some things you probably really wanted when you first got it. But now that you have it — psssh, it’s just money down the drain.
So, we’ve written all out all our expenses and every thing we’re spending our hard earn money on. Great. Next, we worked on a budget to figure out which of those expenses we could live without to stop some of our money bleeding from our wallets, because money gone is no joke. And having two weeks to figure out how badly we need our Netflix account was probably not enough time, especially for someone like me, who doesn’t have cable or satellite anymore. I’m not glued to the television 24/7, when I want to watch a little TV, I’d like the option to be there.
Next and final step for August: Deciding how much we want to save, for what purpose and into what accounts. I personally have a 401K through my job I’ve been investing in for about two years now. I have two savings accounts, one with a traditional bank – Chase — because access to my cash for immediate funds is easier to get a hold of than my internet bank account – Ally. Why do I have both? I think saving should be rewarding and Ally offers me 1.85% interest on my cash. Now may not sound like a lot, but when banks like Wells Fargo, Bank of America, and Chase are only offering something like 0.01%- 0.05%, my 1.85% begins to look pretty nice. Why even bother have the Chase savings account then? Well, it takes a few days to access my money from an internet bank without incurring an expedited fee. Ask me how I know. So, I have them both. I wish I could get the best of a great return percentage on my money of an internet bank with the convenience and quickness of a national branch. But that’s not aligned in the stars for me just yet. And in addition, I have one of those robo-investment accounts through Acorns. So, I have dollars saved all over the place serving different purposes for different goals. But the point is, I have it saved. I budgeted saving into my plan. I don’t need DISH TV. I do need a retirement plan.
So really begin to look at your money and see how it can better serve you. And be honest with yourself as to how much you can save each month. If you can save $100 or more, great! If you can only save $25 or $50 a month, that’s still great. Everybody’s got to start somewhere. But you gotta start. So, think about it. How much can you save a month if you got rid of some of those unused monthly automate subscriptions? Are you working to live in the present moment today or do you want to have a future someday independent and on your own terms?
Hey, hustlers. Hope you’re enjoying this cooler summer Sunday afternoon. Just want to quickly check in and remind you all — hustling and starting a business isn’t easy, but what makes your journey and work more enjoyable is making time with friends.
I’m hanging out with a old employer turned friend in the Venice area of Los Angeles and the weather is great, people are out and about shopping and I realized how much I enjoy just taking a moment to enjoy spending time people I like. People whose company I enjoy. And we should all do that as often as time permits.
So if you haven’t made plans yet, please send a text or pick up the phone and call an old or nearby friend make time to hang out. It’ll lift your spirits!
I talked about writing before as a side hustle. And it might’ve been in respect to résumé writing, because I’ve had my fair share doing that along with writing cover letters. But writing in general is a great income stream if you have a niche for an target audience in need.
Other writings that I’ve personally done that brought in income were:
- Press Releases – living in LA makes this a very lucrative opportunity as just about anymore involved in the entertainment industry is trying to put themselves our there.
- Social Media Curator – yes, this is a thing and a sought out thing. How is this writing? You will be writing the content for brands and companies social media posts. Trust me when I say they don’t write themselves.
- Blogs – this writing very easily falls under social media, but is more labor intensive because blogs are much longer pieces content with SEO practices used and it has to be well written and attractive.
- Books – ebooks, guides, how-to content, whatever it is, put it into a book. I’ve helped a number of people get self published but I’m finally working on my own. Currently writing book number two.
But don’t stop there. These are just the ones I’ve done. Depending on your background and experience, your writing experience can create opportunities with:
- Drafting affidavits
- Agreements and contracts
- Letters of Intent
- Slogans and sayings
- Flyers and poster
- Scripts for TV and movies
- Teach a writing class
If you’re good with writing and want to earn a little sumthin’ – sumthin’ on the side, find one niche in the market and make it your own.
Happy hustlin’, my fellow hustlers!
This week, I’ve felt like I’ve been battling my own sanity. And those damn why questions can keep one up so late at night.
Why isn’t my marketing working?
Why don’t I have more clients?
Why does this momentum take so long to build up?
Why do I feel like I’m never doing enough to make what I want happen?
And the juggling act never helps. Family living with me, full time job, part time business, just self published a book, part time gigs. I mean, a
girl lady can start to feel overwhelmed if this keeps up. And I think I was beginning to feel that.
But, I took out one my handy journals — I have a few — and as I plotted what I needed to do to get from where I am to where I want to be, I also included my reasons. Again. Sometimes I need to remind myself what all this is for. Why I pushmyself, why I keep reinventing myself and elements in my life to best fit the long term goal. I needed to remind myself why it is I am betting on myself. Why I know I’m going to make it. Because I am. One way or another. I need get over the “how” and focus on the “will”.
It will happen.
And it will happen for you too, my hustlers. We have our reasons for the hustle, but more importantly, we have our why.
So, Happy Friday to my fellow hustlers. And if you need a little reminder, always bet on yourself!
I’m here at the Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune Regional Branch Library getting ready to participate in the #DesignYourLA community event sponsored in part by the City of Los Angeles.
I signed up for this event when I met a woman at my last volunteer activity in which she asked me to be a part if this project. After learning she was working with the city, I said yes, because how cool would that be. Rhe project is centered around making Los Angeles a more tech savvy city in attempts in really integrate the communities who have less access to technology as a whole.
I’ll keep you updated!
Updates: (Please describe one or two problems or situations that affect your daily experience in LA – questions being asked)
As much as I wanted success to happen for me instaneously, I’m actually happy that I’m going along the way I am.
What do I mean by that? It’s my firm belief that success is given to us when we are ready for it. And while working towards it, we’re gearing up for it. Positioning ourselves for that moment. For me, all this time I still manage to have steady work with clients outside of my 9-5. Whether they’re repeat clients or new to me, somehow I still get work every month. And I love that. I really do. I love staying busy providing a service or working on the business. It makes me feel like I’m getting closer to the goal.
So wherever we may be in the stage of our hustle — launching, rebranding, or growing — it’s always.good to still have work coming in. A small reminder that we’re doing something right.
Happy Friday, my fellow hustlers!
We lost a queen today, ladies. The incomparable Ms. Aretha Franklin has passed away. A music legend of legends. And as she leaves this world for the next, I hope we all reflect on how important it is to live our lives to the greatest. Live it with passion, live it with drive and in honor of Ms. Franklin, live it with soul.